Thank God we still have some good mothers out there to tell their daughters truth about marriage and not all we see in films..... Here are some tips of advice a loving mother drops to her daughter. Can we get something out of this?? Check out!!!
1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers - lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering,
nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from
office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on
earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean
competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such
equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and
oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your
home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.
6. A wise wife
makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he
gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head
actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.
7. A
wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and advice
or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to
blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of
different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth,
many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves.
Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5
years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt,
even though she is 7 years younger. Her defense is that if he truly
loves her, he should love her the way she is, but when looking for a
wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled
for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions.... You go
to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with your
marriage? Love is not about looks - we know. But looks enhances love and
marriage. There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and
the person being disfigured by an accident.
Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or
fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and
fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to
be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite
her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must
strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer,
sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a
girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a
"useless man", is not careless about her looks or dressing, always
smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls,
etc. Are you your husband's girlfriend in word and in deed?
LASTLY, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR QUARRELS, I DIDN’T JOIN YOU TOGETHER, GOD DID, GO AND INFORM HIM AND HE WILL SORT YOU OUT.
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